I Want to Be a Cuckold
Cuckold Guide for Cuckolds and Hotwives
Find out how to become a cuckold and how to turn your wife into a Hotwife.
WHAT’S INCLUDED IN THE GUIDE?
An 80+ page manual that walks you through, step by step, everything you need to do and say to make your fantasy come true.
1. You’ll become a cuckold in a way that’s safe for your relationship.
2. You’ll unleash her inner slut without risking your relationship falling apart.
3. You’ll fulfill your fantasy many months sooner than if you tried to do it on your own without reading the guide.
Since 2014
Helping first-time cuckolds
A little history
This guide on becoming a cuckold for the first time has helped more than 80 men in the same situation as you. They shared your fantasy of watching your wife in bed with other men, and they also ran into roadblocks when it came to making it happen.
The reason this website exists is to put into a more modern, up-to-date format information that has been helping husbands and boyfriends who want to become cuckolds for many years now.
About Dr. Cuckold
I was born in Spain last century. Like a good wine, I keep gaining body and character as the years go by.
I’ve lived, worked and enjoyed my horns in several countries around the world.
I’d rather listen than talk.
I’d rather play a sport than watch it on TV.
I’d rather create my own world and stay true to my principles than follow social norms and live with a stick up my backside.
I’d rather try the unknown than live in ignorance.
I enjoy the little things.
I consider myself an intelligent person, with a normal life, raised in an ordinary family.
I’m very respectful of privacy, and I expect the same in return:
I’ll never ask for your real name, and I don’t expect you to ask for mine.
I’ll never ask you for a photo showing your face or your wife’s, and I don’t expect you to ask for mine.
I’ll never ask you for your home address, and I don’t expect you to ask for mine.
Like any good cuckold, the only thing I might ask you for is to fuck my wife, though it’s by no means a requirement that you ask the same of me 🙂

THE ORIGINS OF DR. CUCKOLD
I couldn’t pinpoint an exact moment, but the truth is that little by little the fantasy of watching my girlfriend with other men took shape in my mind. I loved her madly, and the sex with her was magnificent. In my moments alone, when I masturbated, she was always the star of whatever porn scene I happened to be watching or imagining. She sucked the cocks that showed up, crawled over to the man, unbuckled his belt, pulled out his cock, started gobbling it up… all of that was a movie in my head, with a script, some actors, and her. But my dream began to evolve to a point where I wanted to be the one writing the scene, with her as the lead actress, and we were just missing one actor to fuck her and make her enjoy herself right in front of me.
At first I fought to get the idea out of my head. Later I had no choice but to accept it. There’s no point swimming against the current — it’s far more pleasurable to just focus on enjoying the view.
“I WANT TO BE A CUCKOLD” – CONFESSING THE FANTASY
One fine day I went for it. I worked up the courage and just said it: “I want to watch you fuck other men.” She looked at me like she’d just seen an alien. Then she burst into tears. She asked if I didn’t love her anymore, if I wanted us to break up…
It was a total disaster.
Later on, once she’d calmed down, she told me she would never in her life do something like that. That it just wasn’t her at all. She was deeply worried because she didn’t want to be with anyone else, and she couldn’t understand how I, if I loved her, could have suggested she be with another man.
It took weeks for her to feel comfortable with me again. For a while I decided not to bring the subject up again. My partner mattered far more than fulfilling any fantasy. The best thing was to try to forget about it. So that’s what I did. Or at least that’s what I tried to do. Even so, I couldn’t get the idea of watching her enjoy herself with other men out of my head. Every time I closed my eyes while we made love, I imagined that her moans were coming from another man’s thrusts. That she was enjoying herself enormously while I was right there in the same room, watching, listening and savoring her pleasure.
Every time I brought up the subject or tried to hint at it with her, it was a complete failure. She accused me of wanting to sleep with other women, told me the last thing she’d ever do was cheat on me with another man, and said she felt very uncomfortable talking about it.
HOW TO BECOME A CUCKOLD
After several attempts spread out over months, I was desperate. My mind needed to see her with other men like it was some kind of drug, but my partner was completely against the idea. I didn’t know how to move forward. I didn’t know what to do. The best idea I had was to ask Mr. Google:
“How to be a cuckold”
“How to convince my partner to sleep with other men”
“Becoming a cuckold”
«Guide to being a cuckold»
«Consenting cuckolds», «KinkyCuckolds», «Real Cuckolds», «Voyeur cuckold», «Cuckold filming», «Sissy cuckold», «Humiliated cuckold», «Submissive cuckolds»…
I also tried to read every piece of information published in English to date: «American cuckolds», «British cuckolds», «Canadian cuckolds», «Australian cuckolds», «Irish cuckolds»… I tried every search you can imagine in order to read everything that was already out there on the Internet at that point. Information is power, and I wanted as much of it as possible.
On top of that, I obviously read forums, blogs and magazine articles on the subject, and I found tons of stories from husbands who had fulfilled their fantasy of becoming cuckolds. But nobody talked about the journey, the steps to get there. They never explained the path they’d followed to make it happen. I got sick of reading lines like:
– “Communication is the most important thing. All you have to do is talk it over with your wife, propose your fantasy and make it clear you love her even though you also want her to enjoy herself with other men.”
– “Yeah, bullshit!” – I thought every time I read something like that or somebody floated the idea on some forum.
I’d already tried that plenty of times and always gotten the same result. That said, the fact that others HAD managed to get their wives to fuck other men gave me a real boost and made me think there had to be a way to make it happen. It WAS possible! Sure, I must have been doing something wrong. But if others had pulled it off, I had to find the way too.
LEARNING FROM OTHER SUCCESSFUL CUCKOLDS
With this newfound sense of hope, I had no choice but to come up with a better plan than last time. I became obsessed with this subject.
I figured it was time to put my knowledge of psychology, NLP and everything I’d learned over years of devouring books on relationships to work.
I started thinking through every option, with the goal of mapping out a plan that would bring me closer to fulfilling my fantasy. My new idea was to learn from those who had already succeeded at the same mission as me. If I could get inside the heads of the cuckolds who had pulled it off and internalize their tactics, maybe my luck would end up like theirs. I got to work. I wanted to know every single thing they’d done, every tiny detail, every line they’d said to their wife… as much information as I could get my hands on so I could analyze it later. I got in touch with every cuckold I could through private messages on forums and emails, I reached out to the ones who had written stories in the cuckold section, and for several months I jotted down every little detail those lucky guys who’d managed to fulfill their fantasy of becoming cuckolds were willing to share with me.
The plan was to model their behavior. To extract patterns I could then emulate. My earlier studies in NLP and the two certifications I already had at that point (Practitioner and Master Practitioner) gave me the tools I needed to tackle something like this. It was going to take me some time, but I had the knowledge and the determination to see it through.
When I finished my conversations with all the husbands who answered my messages, I noticed several things they had in common. They had all met with initial resistance from their wives the first time they heard the idea of sleeping with other men. The luckiest ones managed to overcome that resistance in a few months; others had taken years. Either way, none of them had it easy, but they leaned on their powers of persuasion to make it happen.
All of this added a new note of optimism to my journey. Everyone who had succeeded had gone through a moment similar to the one I’d found myself in. This was a fresh sign of hope! Even though their wives weren’t at all open to the idea at first, none of them gave up, and in the end they’d managed to move the situation forward to the point they wanted: becoming a cuckold.

MY NEW MARITAL STATUS: CUCKOLD
It was clear that I’d been approaching the situation the wrong way. I hadn’t said what I needed to say, nor done what I needed to do. But they hadn’t known how to do it at first either.
These men’s persistence had led them to a common goal. Each one had run into different obstacles, hitting greater resistance at one moment or another. Every path was different, but they all reached the same destination.
I spent the following weeks analyzing and modeling all these behaviors using NLP techniques. I learned from those who had achieved my exact goal and managed to synthesize each of their different experiences into a guide that would work for me no matter what objections my girl might throw at me. After shaping it all, summarizing it, laying it out and studying it thoroughly, now I really did feel ready to try again. Following the new process, it was much easier to overcome each of the obstacles that came up along the way. This time, everything was much more subtle, more elegant, and my partner never saw it coming until one day she was the one who proposed we fulfill “our” fantasy.
I’d done it.
I’d managed to make the idea of watching her enjoy herself with other men her fantasy too. From there, things got a whole lot easier. I won’t go into every detail and event that came after this point, so as not to drag this story out too much. Recounting my sexual experiences isn’t the purpose of this section either. Simply put, I’d learned how to be a cuckold. I’ll sum it up in one sentence: “I became a cuckold who’s very proud and happy with his horns.”
Ever since I became a cuckold, my moment of greatest arousal and my best jerk-off sessions are when my partner is the queen of the night. When she’s the one having fun, when she’s the one cumming with pleasure, and when I’m the one watching.
KNOWLEDGE IS POWER
That said, I’m sorry to admit it wasn’t then that I decided to share my knowledge with the community or create this website. At first, I was so ecstatic about my new “marital status” that I spent a long time walking on a cloud.
The years went by.
Due to circumstances in life unrelated to the subject at hand, I broke up with this partner. I spent a while flitting from flower to flower until I finally found a woman who made me fall in love all over again.
As you can probably guess, everything eventually finds its way back, and a cuckold is a cuckold no matter who he’s with. A few months into the relationship, the most pressing matter once again was that my new partner knew nothing about my desire to watch her enjoy herself with other men. Once again I faced the challenge of sharing my fantasy with her.
This time, I felt more prepared than ever. And although I have to confess that I once again ran into plenty of resistance at various points, the knowledge and the notes I’d put together years earlier worked perfectly. In just a few weeks I managed to fit a second set of horns onto my head. This was the key moment for me to internalize the following idea:
“If the guide had worked perfectly with two different women, it could work with many more.”
I realized I had in my hands some documents of immense value to anyone who wanted to watch their wife in bed with other men. I was convinced I could help thousands of potential cuckolds walk the path I’d already traveled twice.
CUCKOLD GUIDE / HOTWIFE GUIDE – HELPING TO CREATE NEW CUCKOLDS
After my personal success, I was so proud that I shared my horns within a few open-minded circles of friends. Soon after, a couple of friends reached out and started asking me for advice on the matter. Both of them wanted me to help them turn their wife into a Hotwife. Since they were people I trusted, I decided to share my lessons with them. I put some extra effort into rewriting all the content to give it structure and a format that would make it easier for other people to understand and follow (remember that at first it was all rough notes, since I was the only one consuming that material). In other words, I cleaned up all my notes and sent them my little treasure.
A few weeks later, one of these friends called me on the phone and said: “Pick whatever restaurant you want. The best one in the whole city. The day before yesterday I fulfilled my fantasy thanks to you. The document you sent me is pure GOLD! Please, let me thank you the way you deserve. Tonight everything’s on me.”
A few months later, my other friend, with whom I’d also shared my lessons, had a particular way of thanking me for my help. He said: – “Finally! My wife just said yes! The two of us have been talking and… we’d like you to be the one chosen for my first set of horns.”
I couldn’t have been more flattered, honestly.
Although the temptation to share how that whole thing played out is no small one, I won’t do it right now so as not to lose the thread of what we’re on about.
CUCKOLD GUIDE – THE BIRTH OF THIS WEBSITE
Many years have now passed since I first interviewed men who had pulled it off. It turned out almost all of them were from the USA. They were way ahead of us in terms of content published online back when I was doing my research years ago.
When I saw that my research work — which I’d ended up putting down as notes for my own use and enjoyment — had also produced the desired effect with my friends, I realized this information had the potential to help a lot more people. That’s why I decided to make it available to all men, so they could fulfill their fantasy too.
My studies in psychology, particularly in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), are the foundation of the method I’d developed. My certifications as a Practitioner and later as a Master Practitioner gave me all the tools I needed to create the method for molding my own Hotwife. This method combines elements of New Code and Classic Code NLP and is the result of experimentation carried out over a long period of time. Your good fortune is that you can get the same results I got without having to invest the thousands of euros the NLP certifications cost me, and you’ll get those same results far faster. By following my guides, you don’t need to be an expert in Neuro-Linguistic Programming to put them into practice with excellent results. You save years of trial and error iterating on this method that I’ve spent years refining and improving.
With the experience of having helped my two friends, I evolved the system I’d created for myself and gave it a more polished look within a framework adaptable to any situation. Finally, I published it on this website to make it available to other people who, like me, want to watch their wife enjoy herself with other men.
And that’s how this website was born, where my hope is to be able to teach you how to become a cuckold without putting your relationship at risk. In other words, to become a happy cuckold.
GET THE CUCKOLD GUIDE
Every potential cuckold starts from a different place. The cuckold guide covers all the possible objections you might run into and creative ways to overcome them. It’s important to know yourself and to be aware of where you stand in your relationship. That’s covered in the guide too. Download the 80+ pages of knowledge that will take you by the hand so you can fulfill your fantasy. This information is gold. All you need to do is follow the instructions step by step to multiply your chances of becoming a cuckold.
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WITH GREAT POWER COMES GREAT RESPONSIBILITY
All the studies, guides and recommendations published on this website are built on the knowledge I gained during my own research, through the analysis, synthesis and modeling of the behavioral patterns of cuckolds who had achieved success long before me.
It’s enormously rewarding to spend time helping other couples fulfill their fantasy and enjoy a sex life full of excitement for years. Over this time, I’ve helped hundreds of husbands and boyfriends achieve their desire. I have to admit it makes me very proud.
It’s important to point out that, if you’re reading this, you’re standing at the edge of a path with no return. Once you cross a certain threshold, there’s no going back. Are you sure you want to watch your wife get fucked by another man? This is the most important question I have for you. It’s crucial that you answer it honestly before going any further on your journey. If you’re not sure about it, you’re better off not continuing, because the material I share with you on this site is highly effective, and I don’t want to be responsible for you taking a step you’re not sure you want to take.
I’d like to sign off by sharing my own personal vision:
“I promise you the world will be a better place if each one of us helps at least one woman make the transition from wife to Hotwife.” – Here are a series of Hotwife Challenges that will help you make it happen.
I hope you enjoy your horns at least as much as I still enjoy mine.
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WHAT’S IN THE CUCKOLD GUIDE?
An 80+ page manual to walk you through, step by step, everything you need to do and say to make your fantasy come true. Take advantage of years of accumulated lessons from hundreds of aspiring cuckolds and avoid making their mistakes.
Guide table of contents:
1. INTRODUCTION
2. Understanding this world
2.1 Definitions
2.2 Types of cuckolds
2.3 FLR – Female-Led Relationship
2.4 STAG / VIXEN – Male-Led Relationship
3. Origin and biological explanation
4. How to introduce the topic to your partner
4.1 How to overcome the initial fears
4.2 How to boost your wife’s self-esteem
4.3 How to create the right context
5. How to plant the seed in her mind
5.1 How to create the ideal moment to tell her
5.2 The exact way to introduce your fantasy to get the best results
6. Watering the planted seed
6.1 She already knows what turns you on
6.2 How to overcome objections
6.3 Cultivating the fantasy: Keep watering and the horns will bloom
7. Time to reap the rewards
8. The search for the candidate
8.1 Best places to find bulls
8.2 How to make the best selection of candidates
9. The meetup with the bull
9.1 How to make sure everything goes perfectly
9.2 Creating the ideal setting for the first meetup
9.3 The big day
10. After the meetup
11. How to turn it into a regular practice
12. Next steps
12.1 How to slut out your little slut – Guide for dominant men
12.2 How to train your submissive – Guide for dominant women (FLR)
12.3 May the horns be with you
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DR. CUCKOLD
