If your wife already knows about your fantasy and is willing to make you a cuckold, it is time to share some ideas so you can keep exploring. Here is a selection of some of my favorite cuckold tips:
1. Ask your wife to openly flirt or pick up other men while you watch
This is a very fun game to play in a bar or a hotel lounge. The idea is to ask your wife to sit across the room and start flirting with other guys while you watch the scene.
If there is a chance to dance, even better. This can lead to more intimate moments and allow them to brush against each other. If the situation allows it and the guy knows how to take things to the next level, they may touch and even kiss.
When I do this, I like to sit in a corner with a drink while I enjoy watching my wife revel in the attention of other men. After she has danced with someone else, she can send you a WhatsApp message to turn you on even more, describing how she just felt that guy’s cock against her ass and how horny it made her. I love this, and if you have never tried it, the scene is sure to get you very turned on.
2. Go lingerie shopping with your wife for her lover
Going with your wife while she buys underwear for someone else is an effective way to make her feel powerful. It can be very arousing for an unfaithful woman to try on attractive lingerie knowing that she is doing it all to get someone else’s attention. Ask your girl to use provocative language throughout the process. Even better if she asks things like: “Do you think this would drive him wild?” while holding a sexy red lace bodysuit. Or something like: “I think he would love to fuck me while I am wearing this” when she comes out of the fitting room.
If you both enjoy public humiliation, do not be afraid to make suggestive comments loudly enough for the sales assistant or other customers to hear. This experience can also be an opportunity to explore fantasies and power roles in your relationship.
3. Verbal humiliation: your cock is not enough for her
Size matters. Small cocks do not let a woman enjoy herself as much as a large one. On the other hand, if it is very large, penetration can be difficult. For this game, ask your wife to talk about other cocks larger than yours that she enjoyed in the past. She needs to feel comfortable, but if you can get her to revisit those memories, you may delight in a vivid story about a blowjob she gave an ex-boyfriend at some point in the past.
If she gets into it and likes this dynamic, she may surprise you with phrases such as:
“Honey, the truth is that your cock simply is not big enough for me.”
“I cum more intensely with a cock bigger than yours. Would you mind if I tried one day while you watched me enjoy myself like a bitch in heat?”
These are just a few examples, but if she gains confidence in this game, she will let her imagination run free and you will have a great time.
4. Your wife having sex with her lover in the back seat while you drive
As a good cuckold, offer to be your wife’s chauffeur. Let your wife ride in the back seat with her lover while you drive them around the city. If the bull does not know you, you could even pretend that you are an Uber or Cabify driver and that she has gone to pick up her lover.
You can agree on this beforehand so that she can fondle her lover and get him really aroused. It is a very erotic situation for all three of you, especially if you choose a route long enough for things to heat up in the back seat.
You will be able to see in the rear-view mirror as your wife kisses her lover, as they touch her breasts and as far as they want to take things. Remember, your job there is to drive and enjoy the “view.”
If your wife is already an experienced hotwife, within a few miles she will be riding her guest and moaning with pleasure. By the way, do not forget that you are behind the wheel! 🙂
5. Your wife and her lover in the master bedroom while you stay in the guest room
The master bedroom is reserved for the couple. That is true unless your wife is a hotwife. In that case, it is where she will enjoy herself with her lover. If you are not invited to participate, your place will be the guest room or the sofa if you have only one bedroom. Her bull will own your wife’s pussy and will also be the man of the house that night.
Your wife will tell you her decision after having intense sex with her lover. That is when she will decide whether he stays the night and you go to the living room. Leave it in her hands and respect her decision, whatever it may be.
If her lover stays over, your wife’s moans may wake you in the middle of the night, or they may have another intense sexual encounter first thing in the morning.
Those are the 5 ideas. Soon you will have another post with new suggestions to help you enjoy your new marital status: “cuckold.”
Keep learning about how to become a good cuckold.
Last updated: March 2026.